Many couples enter the world of swinging looking for a threesome with a single female. When they realize the difficulty in accomplishing that goal, many times the focus shifts to playing with couples.
Single females in the lifestyle are typically called “unicorns” because of their rarity. While it may be difficult to have such a threesome, it is by no means impossible. Couples have several strategies they can use to end up in bed with that elusive unicorn.
Below is a general overview of each strategy. Follow up guides will be created for each strategy to give more detailed explanations.
Swinging Looking For A Threesome
Swinger Parties
It is rare to find a single female at a swinger dating party, but if you attend enough of them you will come across them every so often. Some of them are merely curious, others only interested in girl and girl, and still others interested in the coveted threesome.
If your sole goal is to have a threesome and you are not interested in foursomes and playing with other couples, then we do NOT recommend you attend swinger parties. If you come across a single female at a swinger’s party that you are interested in, then be present in the moment and engage her. If you expect to have a threesome you cannot be shy and expect the girl to make the first, second or even third move. A single female practically has her choice of who to sleep with at a swinger’s party.
Direct Approaching (Bars, Clubs, Parties)
While out in a vanilla (non-swinger) venue at swinger dating night you can directly approach females you are interested in. You do not have to proposition the female right then and there, but after initiating conversation, building chemistry and rapport, in certain circumstances it may be possible to end the night in a threesome just as one would pursue a one night stand.
Whether you wish for your female half to approach first or for both of you to approach together is a personal choice, however we do recommend against the male half of the swinger dating couple approaching alone. Understand that if you pursue this strategy you will be turned down repeatedly, but there are girls interested in experiencing a threesome and if you connect with the right one when they are in an open state of mind and you do not do anything to creep her out or scare her away, you may get the experience you are looking for.
