Moody, cranky, kinda menopausal BBW (read: fat chick), once widowed, once divorced. My divorce was recently final, and I'm "off" men for quite a while. I've had relationships with other women all my life, and I think I'd like another one. I'm intelligent, nicely dressed, but calorically challenged. Perhaps meeting someone would give me a kick in the pants to lose the weight I should!

May I be frank? I don't believe in playing games. My ideal chick is intelligent, funny, finally secure, horny, not jealous and non-judgemental. Don't like drama queens, either, or those with tons of baggage. Hey, we all have a little history and baggage, but let's not let it take over our lives. If I can't have a LTR, let it be a long term fling or affair. I'm fairly submissive with the guys, but somewhat dominant with other women. Can you stand up to me? Let's find out!