i am a single mother, who loves her kids and will always put them first. i have been putting off getting a live of my own till the kids got older. i have been in some not so good relationships and a good one. i am a good women and would like to find someone who is "real" and not just putting on airs for the world.

i am looking for someone that can understand that my family is first. i want someone that is sweet, kind, honest and can be a friend above all else. he also needs to have a job, and be able to take care of himself.