Firstly I am very open minded,am laid back have good sense of humor,I hate playing all the high school dating games of waiting for people to call or acting like I am not interested in order to gain someones interests.I have had it all and I have lost it all. I have been the cheater, and I have been cheated on. I have been the taker and also the giver. I have finally came to the point in my life where Im ready to take all the less ons and life trials and put them all together and apply them with another I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. This dating is hard work. I think Im ready to retire. lol Life is to short time is to valuable at this point in my life for all that. So if you are the type of person who see's the cup as half full, rather than half empty & believes that life is a two way street. Not a one way dead end? Then I hope your still reading. However if you are one who chooses to "see" life with rose colored glasses on and think that"Good things should come easy

I would like to meet someone that I will be honored to call my friend beyond anythng else.My ideal mate would be one in which knows how to treat a woman, one that can be sensitive yet strong, affectionate but not overzealous about it either, one who knows how to love and loves to be loved as I am very affectionate and loving, and like to be treatedwith the same unfailing love that I give. I am a hopeless romantic, I still love the candlelight dinner with soft music playing in the background, sipping champagne in front of the fireplace while we cuddle and talk long into the night, I like to hold hands and walk under the starlit sky I am very much a romantic and I hope that one day I will find that one man that will make life even that much more special, make no mistakes I am very secure in my womanhood I am secure I don't need a man to complete me however I think it would be a beautiful thing to have a wonderful, meaningful relationship. I want the kind of relationship where you can't wait to get home from a long day at work and just cuddle and kiss your mate and ask them how their day was, the kind that when you look into their eyes it just melts you to the core